[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.amal.cz\/chyby-kterych-se-jako-rodice-porad-dopoustime\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.amal.cz\/chyby-kterych-se-jako-rodice-porad-dopoustime\/","headline":"Chyby, kter\u00fdch se jako rodi\u010de, po\u0159\u00e1d dopou\u0161t\u00edme","name":"Chyby, kter\u00fdch se jako rodi\u010de, po\u0159\u00e1d dopou\u0161t\u00edme","description":"Vychovat d\u00edt\u011b, co mo\u017eno nejl\u00e9pe, se ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d pokou\u0161\u00ed u\u017e od nepam\u011bti. V\u00fdchova p\u0159edstavuje z\u00e1klad do \u017eivota, kter\u00fd na na\u0161e d\u011bti \u010dek\u00e1 a sama o sob\u011b, p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed spoustu d\u0159iny. Kde tedy, jako rodi\u010de d\u011bl\u00e1me ty nejz\u00e1sadn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed omyly? –\u00a0\u201eVelk\u00e1 kukadla\u201c Zn\u00e1te to, d\u011bti svou nevinnost\u00ed um\u00ed obm\u011bk\u010dit i toho nejp\u0159\u00edsn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho rodi\u010de. Trv\u00e1me si na sv\u00fdm a […]","datePublished":"2025-03-02","dateModified":"2023-04-30","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.amal.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.amal.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4bf629230dc34158290ba5b10491f45b3bfbba94b88af3386c3da2fed730f430?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4bf629230dc34158290ba5b10491f45b3bfbba94b88af3386c3da2fed730f430?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"amal.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.amal.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a303285_w1946_t1513594372.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.amal.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a303285_w1946_t1513594372.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.amal.cz\/chyby-kterych-se-jako-rodice-porad-dopoustime\/","wordCount":537,"articleBody":"Vychovat d\u00edt\u011b, co mo\u017eno nejl\u00e9pe, se ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d pokou\u0161\u00ed u\u017e od nepam\u011bti. V\u00fdchova p\u0159edstavuje z\u00e1klad do \u017eivota, kter\u00fd na na\u0161e d\u011bti \u010dek\u00e1 a sama o sob\u011b, p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed spoustu d\u0159iny. Kde tedy, jako rodi\u010de d\u011bl\u00e1me ty nejz\u00e1sadn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed omyly?–\u00a0\u201eVelk\u00e1 kukadla\u201cZn\u00e1te to, d\u011bti svou nevinnost\u00ed um\u00ed obm\u011bk\u010dit i toho nejp\u0159\u00edsn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho rodi\u010de. Trv\u00e1me si na sv\u00fdm a sna\u017e\u00edme se b\u00fdt neoblomn\u00ed, ale pravdou je, \u017ee jen m\u00e1lo z n\u00e1s, takov\u00e9 d\u011btsk\u00e9 o\u010di nedovedou p\u0159emluvit. A to je \u0161patn\u011b. Pokud se u\u017e stane, \u017ee se dostanete do situace, kde jste vyslovili \u201eposledn\u00ed slovo\u201c nem\u011b\u0148te to!\u00a0Pro p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t, \u017ee toho d\u00edt\u011b zneu\u017eije a pozd\u011bji, to bude aplikovat u\u017e poka\u017ed\u00e9.–\u00a0KompromisyStane se, \u017ee p\u0159ijde moment, kdy budete ochotn\u00ed v n\u011b\u010dem d\u00edt\u011bti ustoupit a ud\u011blat spole\u010dn\u00fd kompromis. Zn\u00ed to, sice jako spr\u00e1vn\u00fd a rozumn\u00fd zp\u016fsob uk\u00e1zat d\u00edt\u011bti, \u017ee to jde i jinak, jenom\u017ee ve fin\u00e1le zjist\u00edte, \u017ee jste d\u00edt\u011bti ustoupili natolik, \u017ee si nakonec p\u0159esadilo sv\u00e9. Jak se to, ale stalo? D\u011bti um\u00ed rodi\u010de dokonale zm\u00e1st a za\u0159\u00eddit, aby bylo nakonec stejn\u011b v\u0161echno tak, jak cht\u011bj\u00ed oni. D\u011blejte kompromisy tak, aby d\u00edt\u011b poc\u00edtilo, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1zor je siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e jejich touha.–\u00a0Pl\u00e1\u010dNejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed d\u011btskou zbran\u00ed, je jej\u00edch pl\u00e1\u010d. Dovedou se rozbre\u010det v\u0161ude a za v\u0161ech okolnost\u00ed. A vskutku se dok\u00e1\u017eou rozbre\u010det hodn\u011b! To v\u00e1s um\u00ed p\u0159iv\u00e9st do stavu nervozity, deprese a zoufalstv\u00ed. V dobr\u00e9 v\u016fli, jen aby byl u\u017e klid a ticho, spln\u00edte d\u00edt\u011bti na o\u010d\u00edch snad i to, o co si ani ne\u0159eklo. To je chyba! Dejte d\u011btem najevo, \u017ee v\u00e1s nerozhod\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd jej\u00edch hysterick\u00fd a hlasit\u00fd pl\u00e1\u010d! Oni p\u0159ece nebudou na\u0159\u00edkat v\u011b\u010dn\u011b. Kousn\u011bte se a vydr\u017ete, brzy pochop\u00ed, \u017ee touto cestou vlak nejede!–\u00a0SlibySlibovat \u2013 chybovat. Nev\u011b\u0159te d\u011btem pokud v\u00e1m slibuj\u00ed \u201ehory doly\u201c. Dob\u0159e v\u00edte, \u017ee to neud\u011blaj\u00ed a pozd\u011bji si na to, \u017ee n\u011bco v\u016fbec sl\u00edbili, ani nevzpomenou.\u00a0\u010casto to hod\u00edte za hlavu a \u0159ekn\u011bte si, \u017ee p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b na tom trvat budete, ale op\u011bt se dostanete do situace, kde nad slovem \u201eslibuji\u201c povol\u00edte od sv\u00fdch n\u00e1rok\u016f, i kdy\u017e se u\u017e n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t stalo, \u017ee to nem\u011blo \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd efekt. Zd\u016frazn\u011bte jim, jak d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je n\u011bco sl\u00edben\u00e9ho i dodr\u017eet!Sv\u00e9 d\u011bti bezpochyby milujete tak neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011b moc, jak to jen jde. To ov\u0161em neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee mus\u00edte d\u011blat chyby, aby v\u00e1s m\u011bli r\u00e1di naprosto stejn\u011b. Budou si v\u00e1s pozd\u011bji v\u00e1\u017eit o to v\u00edce, kdy\u017e jim p\u016fjdete p\u0159\u00edkladem a uk\u00e1\u017eete jim, \u017ee vy jste doma za v\u0161ech okolnost\u00ed veden\u00ed, uvid\u00edte!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.3\/5 - (12 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Chyby, kter\u00fdch se jako rodi\u010de, po\u0159\u00e1d dopou\u0161t\u00edme","item":"https:\/\/www.amal.cz\/chyby-kterych-se-jako-rodice-porad-dopoustime\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]